There is Always at Least Three Sides To An Outcome.

Did you ever consider why someone has helped you? Be it for money or as a favour, there is something more to it than meets the eye!! Speaking from personal experience, the reward of facilitating improvement in someone goes much deeper than just the benefits they receive. Most people wouldn't ever contemplate that the person who was skilful enough to create change for the better wants so much more out of the relationship than simply monetary gain. I can honestly say, I have been disappointed when someone I was investing time and effort in for no monetary reward, ceased to partake in the activity because of a convenience factor that affected them.

What you must be aware of is the way in which helping, serving or assisting people to get to a better place has at least three outcomes. Firstly the identity receiving the benefit gets a desirable outcome - hopefully!!! Secondly the skilful helper also receives spiritual benefit from the outcome gained by the identity in question. Thirdly the business also gets a fantastic boost from the successful outcome of the relationship. It is like a huge walking, talking billboard for the business. There is also the factor that the family and friends of the recipient get great benefit from the recipient gaining their desired outcome. Due to increased happiness, health or whatever it may be they were chasing.

So next time someone is doing you a kind turn or providing a valuable service for you, keep in mind that although you desire successful results, there is more happiness and satisfaction to be had by others to.